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Ring in the New
Year with Old Year Reflections
by Tom Terez
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January 1 is fast approaching, and
you know what that means. People will be vowing to lose weight, stop smoking, stick
to a budget, save money, find a better job, become more organized, exercise more,
be more patient, eat better, and ________ (fill in your own resolution).
New Year's resolutions have been with us for 4,000 years, ever since the Babylonians
began celebrating the start of each new planting cycle. The Babylonians knew how
to ring in the new year. They'd party for 11 days, with each day devoted to a theme,
before packing up their party hats and pulling out their plows.
Even the king got involved. The festive folk would symbolically strip the king of
his robes and send him away for several days -- just to make sure no authorities
were around to dampen the party atmosphere. (Think your boss would be open to such
a tradition?)
The Babylonians were the first to have New Year's resolutions. The most common promises
were to return borrowed farm equipment and pay off old debts. Starting on the 12th
day, of course.
I'm all for New Year's resolutions. In fact, I seem to like them so much that I make
them all the time, even without waiting for January 1. I make so many resolutions
that my one New Year's resolution this year might be to make fewer resolutions.
But do I keep these resolutions? And what about you? Do you keep your
resolutions?
A study at the University of Washington found some interesting answers. Among people
in their study group, 67% made at least three resolutions for the coming new year,
and 63% of them stuck with their No. 1 resolution for at least two months. Conclusion:
about two out of every five people make and keep a resolution, at least for a while.
Another study, this one conducted by the American Medical Association, found that
only 40% of their study participants had any intention of making New Year's resolutions.
Half of these people went on to keep their promises. Conclusion: one in five people
makes New Year's commitments and turns them into action.
If the Roman god Janus were around today, he'd have a thing or two to say about this.
Enshrined in ancient mythology, he was the god of change, transitions, and beginnings.
The Romans named the first month of the year after him.
Janus was often pictured with a set of keys, in keeping with his role as warden of
gates. Shrines to him typically took the form of archways, gateways, and arcades.
In later years, the Romans even exchanged coins embossed with Janus' image, as a
way of offering people good fortune in the New Year.
As for his physical appearance, well, Janus had a face only a mother could love.
That's because he had two faces -- one looking forward, the other backward. This
showed his ability to watch entrances and exits. Symbolically, it signaled the need
to balance our hopes for tomorrow with a keen awareness of what happened yesterday.
I'm sure you don't have much need for Roman mythology. But it strikes me that Janus
might know why so many resolutions are forgotten by February. Could it be that we're
only looking forward -- when we should be looking back in equal measure? We have
New Year's resolutions. What about Old Year reflections?
Surveys show that rashly made resolutions are the first to fall by the wayside. The
University of Washington study found that 65% of their study subjects made their
promises between December 28 and New Year's Day. These were the folks most likely
to fall off the resolution wagon within a few weeks.
In contrast, resolutions that stick are almost always backed by a strong personal
commitment to change. And commitment depends on deep reflection, including an honest
look at what unfolded during the recent past. As Janus would tell you, it's not enough
to look at the entrance; the exit calls for attention as well.
Much of this reflection is done individually and around dinner tables, when it's
done at all. Why not go further and open a dialogue in the workplace? The arrival
of a new year gives us the perfect nudge.
How to proceed? Simple. Make a point of getting together with your colleagues to
carve a collective resolution in stone. But don't agree on anything -- don't even
talk in terms of action -- until you've reflected on the past year. Here are several
questions you can use in your work group to seed the dialogue:
If a headline and news article were
written to capture our work group's accomplishments for the year, what would they
say?
Forget metrics and scorecards and all the measurable stuff for a moment. What are
we plain old proud of from this past year?
What values were most important to us as the year began? What values seem to be paramount
right now? Why the change?
What would we do differently at work if given the chance to circle back and relive
one week of our choosing?
What did we learn at work this past year, and how did we learn it?
Did we stay in touch with our deep interests as individuals, and were we able to
apply these passions in the workplace?
How well did we nurture a sense of community and teamwork while valuing and leveraging
people's unique knowledge, talents, skills, and interests?
Questions like these will spark
other questions and open the way to a meaningful conversation. It won't be the easiest
or quickest exchange in recent memory, and at first, it might make your metric-minded
colleagues a bit queasy. But it could be the most honest and revealing conversation
you have all year.
Thoughtful answers to questions like those above will point you and others to just
the right resolutions for the coming year. There's no need to light candles to Janus.
Some serious reflection on the past will shine a much brighter light on how you and
your co-workers can shape the future.
ABOUT THE
AUTHOR:
Tom Terez (TomTerez.com) is an international consultant and frequent
speaker on organizational performance (BetterWorkplaceNow.com) and personal excellence (InnerBest.com)
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